I'm Bari Gordon Vapnek, known as Brave Butterfly Bari. Through writing, speaking, and community building, I transform personal adversity into meaningful advocacy for those living with hypoparathyroidism. Together, we rise stronger.

As a columnist for Hypoparathyroidism News, I believe that adversity is an opportunity for greatness. My life is proof that life is too short to be anything but great.
I'm a proud mother to two incredible children who are my reasons why I fight each day. My daughter Drew, 26, is a Chiropractor at Lake Point Wellness in Acworth, Georgia, and my son Harrison, 24, is a sports director at KALB in Central Louisiana.
Through writing, speaking, and community building, I transform personal adversity into meaningful advocacy for those living with hypoparathyroidism.
Columnist, Creator, and Collaborator working together to inspire and advocate

Writing powerful columns for Hypoparathyroidism News, sharing my journey and insights to help others feel less isolated in their diagnosis.
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Creating engaging content and reels that celebrate life, share my story, and inspire others to embrace their journey with courage.

Building community and fostering meaningful connections with others, creating a supportive network for those navigating hypoparathyroidism.
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Years of Advocacy
"Bari's writing has helped me feel less alone in my journey with hypoparathyroidism. Her courage is truly inspiring."
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"Bari's advocacy work has made a real difference in raising awareness about hypoparathyroidism. She's a true champion!"
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June 1, 2019 — A personal reflection and advocacy piece that explores the importance of time in both personal and professional life.
Read ArticleJanuary 2020 — An insightful article discussing the transition from personal struggles to becoming an active advocate for those affected by chronic illness.
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February 18, 2026
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A beautiful collage of my 2026 journey, celebrating gratitude, freedom, and empowerment as I walk into the new year.
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An amazing week in New York, celebrating being known and brave. Still not famous, but living my best life!
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Celebrating the Boston Celtics and the spirit of being legendary. Sports inspire courage and resilience!
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