COLUMNIST • CREATOR • COLLABORATOR

Where Courage Takes Flight

I'm Bari Gordon Vapnek, known as Brave Butterfly Bari. Through writing, speaking, and community building, I transform personal adversity into meaningful advocacy for those living with hypoparathyroidism. Together, we rise stronger.

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My Story

As a columnist for Hypoparathyroidism News, I believe that adversity is an opportunity for greatness. My life is proof that life is too short to be anything but great.

I'm a proud mother to two incredible children who are my reasons why I fight each day. My daughter Drew, 26, is a Chiropractor at Lake Point Wellness in Acworth, Georgia, and my son Harrison, 24, is a sports director at KALB in Central Louisiana.

Through writing, speaking, and community building, I transform personal adversity into meaningful advocacy for those living with hypoparathyroidism.

My Three Pillars

Columnist, Creator, and Collaborator working together to inspire and advocate

Brave Butterfly: A Hypoparathyroidism Journey - Bari Vapnek

Columnist

Writing powerful columns for Hypoparathyroidism News, sharing my journey and insights to help others feel less isolated in their diagnosis.

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Creator - Content creation and reels

Creator

Creating engaging content and reels that celebrate life, share my story, and inspire others to embrace their journey with courage.

Collaborator - Community building and family

Collaborator

Building community and fostering meaningful connections with others, creating a supportive network for those navigating hypoparathyroidism.

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Social Proof & Impact

2.1K+

Community Members

50+

Published Articles

10+

Years of Advocacy

"Bari's writing has helped me feel less alone in my journey with hypoparathyroidism. Her courage is truly inspiring."

— Community Member

"Bari's advocacy work has made a real difference in raising awareness about hypoparathyroidism. She's a true champion!"

— Fellow Advocate

Featured Publications

4 Minutes

June 1, 2019 — A personal reflection and advocacy piece that explores the importance of time in both personal and professional life.

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Endings and New Beginnings

January 2020 — An insightful article discussing the transition from personal struggles to becoming an active advocate for those affected by chronic illness.

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Latest Columns

My recent writing from Hypoparathyroidism News

Latest Column

Navigating hypopara with the Year of the Horse as my inspiration

February 18, 2026

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Featured Column

The Olympics inspire me to go for gold, despite hypoparathyroidism

February 4, 2026

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Featured Story

Going from patient to caregiver is helping me accept my own needs

November 12, 2025

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Featured Reels

Watch my latest video updates and creative content

2026 Memories Reel

2026 Memories & Year in Review

A beautiful collage of my 2026 journey, celebrating gratitude, freedom, and empowerment as I walk into the new year.

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New York Brave Butterfly Reel

New York Adventure - Brave Butterfly

An amazing week in New York, celebrating being known and brave. Still not famous, but living my best life!

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Boston Celtics Legendary Reel

Boston Celtics - Legendary

Celebrating the Boston Celtics and the spirit of being legendary. Sports inspire courage and resilience!

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